Four (IV) of Wands
Stability, Prosperity, Success, Homecoming, Reunions, Welcome, Celebrations, Parties, Surprises, Weddings, Banquets, Conventions, Events, Ceremonies, Graduations, Contentment, Support, Self-Esteem, Pride, Achievement, Fruits of Labour Community Spirit, Community occasions/Gatherings, Domestic Improvements, Establishing Roots, Moving Home/Job/Country, Renovations, Holidays, Teamwork, Freedom, Liberation
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Time to go shopping for glamorous outfits, hats and shoes for you are going somewhere special. While you are at it, book the hairdresser, nail technician and why not get your make-up done too for there is going to be some style to contend with. Weddings, parties, banquets and family or school re-unions are in the air and you just can’t wait. Maybe it is your own wedding or birthday party and you cannot contain your exuberance. Whatever occasion you are going to or involved in it is bound to have you all a buzz with excitement and anticipation.
People are gathering and you will be one of them for a very important occasion. A lot of effort will have gone in to ensure that this event is a major success. This big day has involved people pulling together and each giving their best as they want everyone to enjoy themselves. The appearance of The Four of Wands reassure you that you will manage to ‘pull it off’ spectacularly and it will be a splendid day for all.
The Four of Wands is especially connected to family gatherings and very especially to home-comings. In the imagery of this card, the scene could be happening absolutely anywhere. If we let our imagination wander, the two women waving bouquets outside the castle could just as easily be standing outside the Arrivals Door at an airport excitedly waiting to see the familiar faces of family members home for the holidays or festive season. “I see them, I see them. Here they come” racing forwards to embrace as tears of joy and relief flow down their beaming happy faces.
Then again, the two women could be awaiting the arrival of an unsuspecting mother and father who think they are just going out for a quiet dinner to celebrate their anniversary. The two women along with the other family members in the background have other plans for them as together they have been organising a surprise party for their parents for the last few months. They keep a look out at the door ready to flick the light switch on as the signal for all to scream “SURPRISE”! therefore wonderful surprises may be in the air and who knows the surprise might just be for you!
When the Four of Wands appears in your reading it brings with it a great sense of joy, excitement and contentment. It indicates strongly that you are entering a very stable and prosperous period in your life. It is a time for feeling supported by all those around you.
The Four of Wands is also the ‘Holiday’ card and its presence in a reading can suggest that a trip or holiday to the countryside could offer much-needed rest, relaxation and a break from the daily grind. The Wands are governed by the Fire Element so do love things hot and spicy. The colouring of this card suggests heat and glorious sunshine so maybe a vacation to a warmer climate could be on the cards for you. This holiday will give you a great sense of freedom and the opportunity to kick back, relax and enjoy yourself. You have been working very hard of late and really deserve it.
A move to a new home, country, environment or workplace is often highlighted by the presence of this card and if so then it would suggest that a warm welcome awaits you there. Wherever it is you are going be it temporary or permanent, you will find a strong supportive network of people around you. Once through the entrance gate or door you will experience a strong sense of community spirit where you will automatically be accepted. They are as excited about your arrival every bit as you are and will want to help smooth the transition for you and be eager to help. It is in the Four of Wands that you will find the kindly neighbours or welcoming committee who arrive with home-cooked apple pies and casseroles while you un-pack your possessions into your new home.
The castle in the Four of Wands looks well maintained and may suggest that effort and time is being put into the home front. You may be decorating and renovating; taking sledge-hammers to walls, pulling up carpets and digging out gardens in order to put your own mark on the property. This is bound to help you settle into your new home or environment. You may desire to establish roots here and could be going out of your way to get involved in the community
The Four of Wands often suggests that the new environment you are moving into, is much different from the one you have just left. Everything is new, exciting and for the time-being almost holiday-like.
Wands, generally do not like to sit still for very long but in this instance, they are quite happy to take a break after all the effort put in in the preceding cards. Therefore, this card heralds the successful achievement or desired outcome of a situation or project due to hard work and determination. The Four of Wands can highlight the ‘settling in’ period after this achievement and the desire to establish roots of some kind. The Four of Wands returns stability, order and security into your life after a period of upheaval, movement and transition. It also highlights a period of contentedness which is a much-needed experience for the frenetic Wands type
The Four of Wands often brings with it a sense of freedom, a release from an oppressive situation or a bind you may have found yourself caught up in. When the Four of Wands appears and you are experiencing restrictions in life it carries the message that you have the power within to liberate yourself. This liberation may take place on the physical, emotional, mental or spiritual level.
The positioning of the Four Wands takes the form of an entrance, doorway or gateway symbolising that if you have been trying to gain membership, admission to or be accepted by a particular organisation, club, college or establishment then it certainly augurs well for you so you should expect to receive some positive news in relation to it. When it comes to Colleges and students, the Four of Wands can symbolise Graduation Day and celebration on the completion of years of intense work and study. Well done and applause all round! Time to throw your flat board high in the air!
If you are in a race of some sort or indeed involved in competitive sports then the two women waving can now represent the cheers and whoops of the spectators as you pass over the finish line (under the garland) and secure first prize.
In a relationship reading the Four of Wands suggests that you are settling into a relationship and feel safe and secure. A deep commitment may signify marriage and planning for engagement parties, weddings etc. This card is a strong Wedding Card and in other Tarot Decks, Wedding Couples often feature in the imagery of the Four of Wands card. Family and friends are welcoming and supportive of this alliance and excited about the upcoming celebrations.
On the domestic front, this card indicates a very settled time indeed in a relationship when much effort is being put into maintaining it and building on its existing strengths. If, as a couple you have decided to set up home together, this card would suggest that there is great enthusiasm and energy being put into settling in and getting to know your new neighbours and locale etc. As a couple, life is definitely on the up for you. Keep up the good work!
In a career reading the four of Wands happily indicates the settling into a new job or work environment where the fellow workers are supportive and encouraging. You may have taken a job in a foreign location and are spending time establishing yourself with your new work colleagues. Everything is new and exciting and you feel thrilled with the decision you made to join them. Great teamwork is indicated with everyone pitching in with his or her particular skill in order to complete a project or task. This is a happy move. The company is solid and successful. Congratulations on a job well done.
The Four of Wands can suggest that you will be attending a work related function or event of importance. You may be the honorary guest or may even be looking forward to receiving an award for the successful completion of a project. A lot of excitement and prestige surrounds this event so make sure you dress well for the occasion and prepare a slick Acceptance Speech.
All in all you should be happy with any decisions you made in the Two followed by the action taken in the Three as you can now reap the rewards for your effort. You are moving, capably and firmly towards you goals. Enjoy your day in the sun and bask in the glory of your success. You have earned it.
Instability, Lack of Support, Neglect, Uprooting, Not Fitting in, Temporary, Transience, Leaving Home, Empty Nest Syndrome, Insecurity, Jilted, Post Wedding Blues, Lack of Teamwork, Lack of Community Spirit, Lack of Achievement, Restrictions, Blocks, Lack of Freedom
The Wands are uprooted from the earth and the garlands and wreaths scattered. The home front (castle) now appears neglected and unloved offering little in comfort and security. What has happened to all the initial effort and plans? Have you lost interest or maybe you are experiencing some set-backs and delays. Maybe you have bitten off more than you can chew and find the work overwhelming and have lost control.
With regards to home-building and renovating, all the work being put in may not be for your personal use. Instead the reversed Four of Wands can represent the property developer who after completing the makeover then sells the property on for a profit before moving on to his next project. A transient nature is often suggested in the reversed Four of Wands. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet after period of time and need to move on. A temporary situation is often indicated where it is not possible to lay down foundations or establish roots.
This card reversed can also represent the time when you leave the family home for the first time to make it on your own. It can be an exciting time but also a time of insecurity and instability as you now have to rely on yourself. It can be a time of saying goodbye to one life before moving happily into another. On the other hand it can also bring with it the empty-nest feeling when your children move out leaving you rattling around in an empty quiet house.
The Reversed Four of Wands suggests insecurity and instability in your life and especially on the home front. You may be moving away from a place you know well or are being forced to sell up and go. We get a strong sense of lack of community spirit in this reversed card and you may feel that you do not fit in or that your neighbours are terrible unfriendly. You may be finding it hard to settle anywhere or to find the right home. You could have a pattern of moving home regularly.
There is a strong sense of not belonging and this may be because you choose not to. You may be quite a loner, keeping to yourself and avoiding contact with neighbours or getting involved in community affairs or occasions. Maybe you just feel like an outsider who will never be accepted or perhaps you find it hard to get along with them. There may be one person in particular (a neighbour/work colleague) who makes your life a misery. You must ask yourself, who is to blame in this case for it may be your own fault. The reversed Four of Wands can suggest that you are making no effort to fit in or get along. Depending on the circumstances this may suit you fine but remember we all need people around us at some time or other.
When it comes to weddings, the Reversed Four of Wands is loaded. Let us look at the imagery again. In the Upright we see all the excitement of everyone dressed up for a great day out. The castle looks splendid and the decorations superb. Everything is good to go and in place. Now we upturn the card and suddenly, as we let our imaginations wander we see the morning after scenario. Somewhere throughout the celebrations, the garlands either fell or were pulled down and now lie strewn on the floor. The Wands are scattered close by. A few weary guests, probably the worst for wear are still up and wandering around when they should be long in bed. The lovely hats and fascinators worn the day before look askew or are missing. The bouquets that looked so sweet and fresh now appear jaded and limp with some of the petals already turning brown. Half empty glasses are slowly being collected from the strangest of places by early morning fresh-faced but unimpressed staff.
The Bride and Groom descend the stairs for breakfast, both looking a little green in the face and shell-shocked. Yesterday, the bride looked like a film star. Today, she just looks like her normal self except a little more tired. The groom looks slightly relieved that the whole circus is over and now just wants to get away for the honeymoon. The bride observes her wedding dress being taken out to a family member’s car. Yesterday, and for days prior to that it had hung from a rail preciously covered in tissue paper and protective covering. All those dress fittings she had before the big day when staff and friends were only permitted to touch it once they wore white cotton gloves. How it had sparkled and shone like a rare jewel.
Today she had felt a bit bewildered and surreal as she had watched her bridesmaid bundle it up in a ball before squashing it into a black plastic bag before dumping it outside the bedroom door for collection. She had winced as she caught sight of the dirty foot prints on its train, the red wine that her drunken brother-in-law had spilled down her back and the deep orange of her fake tan that had more than likely permanently stained the underarms and fine silk. Her once-in-a-lifetime expensive purchase, which to her, had been a symbol of her hopes and dreams has now lost its glow and sheen.
Her fifteen minutes of fame is up and her supermodel moment gone. When she walked into the reception yesterday, all eyes were on her and she felt like royalty, but now as she enters the breakfast room, only a few of her guests have the energy to speak to her let alone look up at her. Every one is eager to be off and back to their own lives. As the new bride eats her breakfast, she stares at her also new husband across the table and thinks to herself, what now? All the planning is over, everyone had a great day, the service and food excellent, the wine magnificent and speeches so emotional.
All agreed that she had been the prettiest bride they had ever seen but now she feels a bit flat and depressed. Her big day is over and all her family and friends who especially flew home for the wedding will all be departing in the next few days. She had intended on getting around to speak to them all at the reception but there just wasn’t enough time. As she gazes out on the lawn through the expensive hotel window she consoles herself with the thoughts of the honeymoon ahead and all those lovely presents to open when she returns. Real life and coming back down to earth again can wait until then.
So after reading the above we can safely assume that the Reversed Four of Wands can suggest post wedding blues and a sense of anti-climax that often follows big occasions as such. Also, these occasions are great for getting the extended family together and it can be sad when we have to say farewell to loved ones as they board flights which will take them far, far away from us. All the planning for such days can take up our entire life and it’s not just the bride who falls into this scenario. The mother of the bride or chief bridesmaids can become instant Event Managers overnight and in some cases it can give a certain raison d’être to their lives. They become important, busy and occupied and can feel really useful. Once the big day is over so too is their role and depression and a sense of uselessness can settle in.
Depending on surrounding cards, the Reversed Four of Wands can suggest a wedding that ended disastrously. Someone may have been jilted at the altar or there may have been emotional outbursts at the reception or rows and family fights. The bridesmaid may have been caught in an embrace with the groom or the groom caught kissing the bride’s best friend. There may however be a bizarre story attached to the wedding such as the groom turning up at the wrong church or the bride slipping and falling into the wedding cake! Be wary of double bookings too when the reversed Four of Wands appears. This reversed card can also represent a Bridezilla but tread carefully here if you suspect it is the querant herself. It can also suggest a wedding that is all show but has no real substance or firm foundations as the Stage Card comes into play.
With the Reversed Four of Wands we can let our imagination run riot when it comes to possible scenarios for weddings but you do need to baste you assumptions on the surrounding cards and not just go for what appears the most dramatic. The Reversed Four of Wands can either represent a wedding day to remember or one that everyone would prefer to forget. We must also remember that for a lot of people their may be issues within the family and this card may suggest that you are dreading the idea of an upcoming family get together or occasion.
If you are planning a surprise party for someone then you may not get the delighted reaction from them that you expect. Also, someone may have let the secret out and the element of surprise has gone. Your surprise may backfire on you when the person in question fails to turn up. Homecomings may have to be put on ice due to flight cancellations or unforeseen changes or plan or circumstances.
When the Four of Wands reverses, holiday plans may go awry or get cancelled. The transient nature of this card may find you backpacking around the world and not staying in one place for any length of time. Bringing the Stage Card aspect in you may turn up at your foreign hotel to find that it hasn’t even been built yet or that you have a view of a building site or factory from your bedroom window instead of the sea. It certainly did not look like that in the brochures! Instead of the hot sunny weather you expected, there may be downpours and unseasonal temperatures. You may need a holiday badly but are so bogged down with work and obligations that you do not have the freedom to go. On the other hand, you may be free to take a vacation but refuse to avail of the opportunity to get away.
You may lack fun and excitement in your life or feel that you never get invited anywhere. On the otherhand you may be the type of person who avoids social occasions or functions of all sorts.
Students may be unhappy with their achievments or grades or fail to graduate when the reversed Four of Wands appears. Remember, it all depends on the question being asked and the surrounding cards in the spread.
In relationships it indicates a lack of development and depth. It was probably not built on strong foundations from the start with only one way it could go. The reversed Four of Wands can leave you feeling insecure about your relationship. A once happy home now becomes tense and less welcoming. Something unsettling has happened here which has upset this normally harmonious environment. The condition of our home or castle is often a strong indication of the condition of our relationship. If we begin to neglect one then in general we will begin to neglect the other. A sudden change in the upkeep of the family home can be a warning sign of problems within the relationship. We all start off with great intentions but sometimes it is hard to stick with them. When the Four of Wands turns up reversed, it can suggest that the sheen has worn off a relationship and effort on both parts will be needed to restore it.
With the lack of freedom this reversed card represents, it sometimes suggests that you are not free to marry or be involved with the partner of your choice. There are restrictions of some sort. Possibly you are awaiting your final decree of divorce or there may be cultural or religious differences that are causing blocks or objections to your plans.
Work or career related it can suggest that you are leaving behind a secure job or work environment for something that lacks stability. Maybe you are travelling abroad on a short-term employment contract. Your job may involve considerable travelling making it impossible for you to settle anywhere. You may also be temping before something more permanent comes along.
If you or your team where hoping for an award or a prize then you may lose out to the competition when the Four of Wands reverses. The whoops and screams from the crowds may be for someone else. This is not the end and rest assured you will have more battles to fight on your way to the top. Put this one down to experience and move on.
The Reversed Four of Wands in a career environment often highlights a team that is not working together. Instead they pitch against each other and undermining each other’s work. Competitiveness and lack of support from your fellow workers leaves you alienated and isolated. If you have recently joined a new firm you may be experiencing difficulties fitting in. Maybe it is because you are making no effort or are intimidated by the newness of it all. Try to give it a bit more time before making any drastic decisions. Remember, there has probably being a lot of change in your life in recent times and you have worked hard to get here so hang on in there for another while.
On the other hand, as there always is in the reversed cards, this reversed Four may be suggesting that you are getting too friendly or chummy with your work colleagues. Often we confuse the chatter with work pals and staff night’s out as real friendships but ask yourself are these people you would choose to go on holiday with or spend your weekends with. If they are people you only meet in work then they are simply people you work with and not part of your circle of friends. This may sound quite a strange comment to make but if we set no boundaries in the workplace then it becomes quite awkward and difficult when someone has to be taken to task over their work or behaviour. Not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings we can let things slide and let poor work go by without any comment whatsoever.
If you have travelled far from home or emigrated in search of work then you may be going through a period of homesickness and this is perfectly natural (look for the Three or Six of Cups especially). The excitement of the holiday period has worn off and you may be feeling down and lonely. Everything is strange and unfamiliar to you at present. You may regret the decision made in the Two and the action taken in the Three. You need to go back to the Upright Three to reconnect with that bright burning spark of adventure and ambition that has brought you to where you are now.
The Freedom and liberation of the Upright Four vanishes and in its place you can feel trapped and limited in a boring job or career. You may be full of bright ideas and ambitions but no one wants to know. Every effort you make is either blocked by your colleagues or dismissed by your boss. It may take some effort on your part to free yourself from this situation but it is essential that you do. Otherwise your self-esteem and creative impulse will dry up. You really are neither happy where you are nor doing what you are doing so go and do something about it.
In this time of recession, the uprooted Wands can suggest a company that was once solid and successful but may now be facing financial instability and insecurity. Redundancies or salary cuts may follow.
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